Netflix and chill - but literally. In your PJs, on the couch, binge-watching a full season of the latest release. Sometimes that's ok. Occasionally, I've even been known to assign it to some of my clients. But when immobility becomes a habit, when we feel unmotivated on most days, or so overwhelmed by tasks or options that we feel paralyzed, when we are stuck in deep, thick mud like that, when we have been still for so long that it seems our bodies have forgotten how to start moving again, then we have fallen victim to inertia.
When we are stuck in a pattern, whether a pattern of movement or a pattern of stagnancy, it can feel impossible to shift. Sometimes it seems that no matter what we try, we can't seem to relax, or to get going. Meditation is a wonderful tool for relaxation and rejuvenation for someone who is on the way to burnout, but have you ever skidded onto a cushion from a day of multi-tasking and back to back activity and tried to sit quietly and focus on your breathing? And exercise is a great way to get your energy moving, but have you ever tried to muster the will power mid-OITNB-binge?
Before I talk about the answer, I want to talk about the NOT-the-answer. The answer is not to yell at ourselves about the difference between where we are and where we wish we were. The answer is not in shaming, bullying, name-calling, comparing, or otherwise beating ourselves into a different shape. Not only are these things harmful to us on a very deep level, they don't really work that well.
Try it this week! See if giving yourself a little grace, and honoring your current energy state first instead of expecting yourself to shift to the opposite so abruptly works better and feels better to you. Let me know in the comments!