Freedom. Independence. Liberation. Man, that's a good feeling! But maybe one that we don't feel that often. There are so many demands, expectations, and other external forces pulling us in directions that may not match up with the way we want to go. Sometimes instead of feeling free, we feel trapped, squooshed, fearful, or stuck. Just putting myself into that space while brainstorming those descriptive emotions conjured up some serious anxiety in my back, neck, and shoulders! It did not feel good, y'all! Freedom feels so much better; so how do we get there?
I like to think of freedom as having two main components, the first of which is curiosity. By this, I mean asking ourselves the question, "I wonder what this is like?" In each new moment, in each new experience, even in the same-old-same-old experiences - to approach it with a beginner's mind, a child-like wonder, a scientist's eye. I wonder what this is like?
In Buddhism, they have a handy saying: "Right now, it's like this," embracing both acceptance and impermanence. A friend recently gave this age-old saying a fantastic update: "Right now, that's what's up." Equally true, more delightful to say, and maybe a little catchier too.
See my previous blog for more about this idea of meeting ourselves where we are. Right now, that's what's up.
Willing to give it a try? Practice meeting each moment with curiosity and acceptance, and see if your feelings of freedom don't multiply this week!