Entrepreneurs. Creators. Doers. Magic Makers. Manifesters. Movers. Shakers. Hustlers?
I was with you, and then "hustling." I think of myself as a recovering Type A. I'm organized and driven. I make plans, execute, and get results. Calls, meetings, proposals, presentations. Hustling. What exactly are we celebrating? If it's believing in ourselves and in our dreams enough to back them up with positive, continuous action and manifest these amazing lives and this amazing world that we envision and plot and plan about so persistently? Yes, I'm all in with that. But sometimes I think we are celebrating something different.
Busyness. Chaos. Stress. Running. Rushing. Always thinking of the next thing and never really here for the now thing. Hustling. I'm not here for this. This is the part I'm working so hard to recover from. This is not the kind of life I want to live. This is not success. And, here comes a big one: this is not required by success.
I once worked for a non-profit organization who brought me on to turn what had been operating as a recovery residence into a treatment program. This was a great and noble goal, but one that would require raising more money, hiring more highly trained staff, meeting more regulatory demands, and changing the "way we've always done things." And really, the organization wasn't on board with any of that. We accomplished our goal, but not without constantly butting heads with my bosses, our funders, and volunteers. We kept pressing on because it was such a worthy goal, but it was unsustainable in such a system - one that ultimately had different goals. In the end, I gained one of the most valuable lessons in my life: sometimes obstacles are not here to be overcome. Sometimes they are signs that you're on the wrong path. Sometimes its better to find the people who already have the same vision, who are already working towards the same goals. Sometimes it just doesn't have to be so hard.
Herein lies my issue with this whole glorification of "hustling." Hustling sometimes teaches us to keep fighting no matter what. To wear ourselves out in the pursuit of "success." To sacrifice peace today for tomorrow. To approach everything with such a forceful attack. Maybe we could be gentler with ourselves. Maybe we could allow ourselves the grace of peace today and tomorrow. Yes, there will be bumps and obstacles along the way that are meant to be overcome. But when we hit wall after wall after wall - perhaps we are needing to learn a little more deeply that we are worthy and deserving of a life of abundance and ease. Yes, we have to work for success. And yes, the work is hard. But maybe just not that hard.
Find the moving current. Step into it. Hustle and flow. Hard work and grace. Abundance and ease.